Wife ruling (always) :)

Assalamualaikum...

One of the GM here gave me this. And by this quote, you shall know whether it's he..or she.

Morale - never ever questioned your wife.

Tetapkan Hati

Assalamualaikum...

Figuratively, things changes steadily over past 2 years. We both are more comfortable doing stuff without the maid, even Ilham, when Tokcik decided to move back to Kedah (read: no maid at all to clean the house for 2 times a week, or to iron the school uniform after this). We are weighing the options, whether to place the kids at transit or get a new maid, and Ilham chose the 1st option. Lagi best tak ada orang asing dalam rumah mama. Good girl.

And at work, if you can recall my struggles, and my never ending fight with the team, i think its just getting better now. Even my GM commented on this in my PPA. How? Just accept that people comes in many form. You can expect them to understand you. The best you should do, just try to figure out how to adapt, without losing your own identity.

And i found the ayat above is so powerful, and a good reminder to myself. What we are, and what we have, even to finest details of whats we feels and think, is not belongs to us. It is under Allah's care and Will.

So when you love something, love moderately. Or when you hate something, teach yourselves to limit the hatred. Learn to have everything in moderate. I am still learning, myself.

Isnin yang erm.....

Assalamualaikum...

Still on my attempt to make sure no spider web hanging in my blog - hence a writing is a must.

So last Monday was an exceptional, received a phone call from our Rugby Teacher, clarifying the stories on the wrong tellies that were brought in. And what made us sooooooo happy (and definitely alhamdulillah), he was also stating his stand of supporting us.

Dalam banyak2 benda, apabila kita di fitnah, kalau ia membunuh dan mengenai reputasi. Jawab dan kemudian tawakal kepada Allah s.w.t Akhir zaman ini, Allah bagi semua cash. Jangan risau dan sedih. Just have faith in Him.

For us, the only things that warrant concern is our reputation with the teachers. So once cikgu called, the whole burden lifted. And definitely, am smiling again.

Stories reached us on few attempt to spread the tellies to others and Alhamdulillah, the new parents ignored them. Which I humbly thanks. We may not always be in a communication, or met, knew each other by name and reputation only, and yet the support given to us is based on that limited interaction. 

Those people? Let them talk, and cray in the poodle of shit they made. There were days, I do pity them. Sebab their kids are good. And have the potential. But those potential buried with the attitude of the parents. Bukanlah cikgu sekolah yang jahat abaikan anak dorang yang nakal dan suka mencuba, its normal for the kids. Tapi yakin, yang cikgu dah malas nak layan is the mak dan bapak budak tu. Memang perangai kena baiki di Henry Gurney.

So this should be my last writing of this. 

Thank you my readers for reading this, and most of you for trusting us.

Thank you also for AURB parents ehem - i also knew you are reading this (Its the IP sisthurrrr, choose incognito mode next time). And for the effort to print screen the write up for circulation. I pray for Allah to open your heart , accepting the truth and improving whats need to be done. If in the event you need help, just reach out. We will try to assist - ONLY for the benefit of your kid. But do not expect us to air kissing with you. Its a no no. Hope that clear ya. And good luck with your plan for the kid. Never again questioned why Allah makes it hard to you, just look at yourself. And repent. Banyak dah orang you all susahkan ni. Not only with us. The bad reputation to dah ada. Hati2 lah.

Ok. Got to go!!!!!