The Soft Sides of These Two (I-Dun-Care) People

Assalamualaikum..

Comparing between my 3 kids, Imani - is an observer. She will analyze her situation well (and complicate 😒), ensure everything is in order, and evidence with action rather than words. She dont mind sitting at the back, or be the last one in que, so long it will put her out of danger or any complicated situation. Being an only child for 4 years, she was sometimes quiet full of herself. The very good quality of her, being an observer, is the thinker mind. Listening to her words or trail of tots, sometimes (still is) scared me off. She is too mature for the average. And its very difficult to know her mood. Well kept and hidden for herself >>> this is sooooo Hasif.

Whilst Harith - in comparison is the open book guy. Always the one with romantic words, who will waits for the rest to gather before starting for any activities, the one who will ensure everyone eaten and will reserve a plate or a dish shall someone is missing. Always have that 'think-for-others' attitude. Easy to read - happy-sad-or angry >>> i hope he got this from me. Tsk tsk.

Hanif - huhuhu - this one fella, we are still erm... trying and error what best to handle him. Very independent, brave and knows how to use his best quality to get what he want. And most than not, people will succumb to his plan >>> we are still trying to digest where he got this attitude from *rolling eyes*. 

And last week, I found this cutie drawing in Imani's room:

This simple drawing really made me proud. Look on the detailing of the eye. And put aside the wrong spelling (huh), my focus was on her writing. So innocent and straight forward. Good she understand what we have been trying to instill in her mind all this while.

To add on, I also found this Card from Hasif, from 2004 with a drawing inside. 

I received this card, with a bear,a bouquet of red roses and Guess watch. And trust me, that was the first and rare occasion I got the flowers 😭. After the wedding (and 3 kids) - left only wishes and (WA). Huh. I hope this soft sides of Hasif will reawake soon. Haha.

So its confirmed : as per initial assumption, Imani is Hasif's protege. Less word, more action. Oh dear, you are just a girl kakak. There is no wrong for you to show your emotion. 

Well, I really enjoying this individual uniqueness. To understand where the kids inherit their plus (and minus) points. To better appreciate each and all of their attitude, strenghts and weaknesses. 

I just wish, I could give them the best of this world.

InsyaAllah.